06 February 2024
LOVE IS IN THE COMFORT ZONE. OR NOT!
They’re funny things, comfort zones. A bit like old slippers – snug, familiar, and easy to slip into without
thinking. There’s also something to be said for being entrenched within that zone. In a world filled with
uncertainty, ever-changing realities and things that make us question ourselves, your comfort zone cocoons
you in certainty.
But it is, most often, just that. A cocoon. A place to reside for a while, to catch your breath. A place to grow
from. It is not a place to stagnate in. Ask yourself this: when did those slippers last take you somewhere
new, thrilling or on a solo adventure? After all, isn’t it within the newness of things that we end up
stretching, end up growing?
The science of growth: Stepping beyond the comfort zone
But don’t just take our word for it. Scientists and doctors have spent decades examining what it is about
stepping out of our comfort zone, which is crucial for personal growth, creativity, and learning. Their
findings? That optimal growth happens at the edge of our comfort, where stress levels are slightly higher
than usual but within the healthy range. This ‘elevated excitement’ pushes us to adapt and grow in
transformative ways. Through their studies, they found five ways to help you expand in your daily life:
Set small, achievable goals: Begin with manageable steps that challenge you slightly but don't overwhelm you.
Seek new experiences: Whether it's trying a new hobby, exploring a place you've never been, or trying unique wine pairing experiences, novelty is vital to growth.
Embrace failure as a learning tool: Every setback is an opportunity to learn, adapt, and evolve.
Cultivate a growth mindset: Believe in your ability to learn and improve through dedication and hard work.
Connect with like-minded individuals: Surround yourself with people who encourage you to step out of your comfort zone, perhaps through solo adventures in SA.
The truth is growth never occurs in a haven of comfort. It's in the stretching of our boundaries, the leap
into the unknown, that we truly find ourselves and our capabilities. This leap, however, requires a daring
spirit—a willingness to confront the unfamiliar and the uncomfortable. It's about pairing your life with
things that set your soul on fire.
Daring to get out of your comfort zone is an act of bravery. It's choosing to invest in experiences that enrich
you, that pull you towards your higher self. This could mean travelling solo to a place you've never been,
enrolling in a course to learn a new skill, or simply taking the time to reflect and understand yourself better.
The concept of daring to grow is not a one-time act; it's a continuous journey. It's about making a conscious
decision every day to choose growth over comfort. It's about waking up each day and asking yourself, "How
can I push myself today? How can I step out of my comfort zone?"; It's in these small, daily acts of bravery
that significant changes occur.
Loving yourself in this context means more than self-care rituals; it means prioritising your personal growth
and happiness. It's about discovering your own route to recognition – a path that presents more of what
you deserve and where your dreams and aspirations are worth pursuing. Because in the end, the growth
you achieve, the person you become, is infinitely more rewarding.
In essence, to dare yourself to grow is to embrace the full spectrum of human experience. It's to
understand that within every challenge lies an opportunity for growth; within every fear lies the chance to
discover strength you didn't know you had. It's about loving yourself enough to give yourself the gift of
But where to start? How about a ticket for one to the movies? Woven Bark Studios has created the perfect
solo rodeo for the self-love entourage this season, with an exclusively curated Vinyl and Vino pairing
experience in Johannesburg, a space where solo adventurers can immerse themselves in the dual pleasures
of music, wine, and classic film. Here, the act of stepping out alone is transformed from a dare into a
This is not just an invitation to an event; it's a challenge to redefine your relationship with yourself. It's
about embracing the solo journey, finding joy in your own company, and discovering the parts of you that
emerge in solitude.
Discover more paths to venture beyond your comfort zone, solo or side-by-side with a companion, by
connecting with the Woven Bark team – your connoisseurs of bespoke pairings and extraordinary
To book your seat for Love is in the Dare, go to https://qkt.io/QbiKuz.